Apr 29 2008
Goodbye Rich
On the evening of April 27, 2008, Rich James passed away. He was surrounded by family and friends.
Rich touched many lives in his time here.
Tributes and Memories
I still sit here in such disbelief, my mind struggles and resist the concept that Rich has passed. Tears well up in my eyes, as I wish that I could just say hi just one more time, hear his words as he calls out to me "Louie Louie" as he did every time time to me with that great smile of his. He had such a warm heart, so giving in his thoughts, so peaceful in his ways. I could always count on Rich to help balance my mind when I was struggling. He was always there for me, helping me obtain peace and tranquility, in my chaotic mind. Being around him was like a sanctuary to me. I so badly want to be able to give back to him in some way what he gave to me in volumes. Now he is gone, so suddenly. My heart breaks. I'm really gonna miss you Rich ........
God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference
Thank you for all that you did, you were a GREAT man God bless you, R.I.P.
Lou
I will always love Rich. How could anyone ever stop loving a man like him? He was so full of life, and I am sure the energy will continue to be with all of the family and friends he loved. I will miss his wit, his friendship, and his healing hugs.
Bill, Ron, Mary, Greg, Donna, Pat and Susan and kids - My sincere love to you.
Carol
My heart gopes out to the family and many, many friends of Rich James. I will still see him on the streets of OB greeting all of us with that gentle smile or cruisin in his big old car for a long time to come.
Rich learned many life lessons in his time with us and was so generous in sharing with everyone he knew. He was a true force in OB over the years and our community benefited in so many ways.
I will be at his life tribute to experience the laughter, tears, memories and thoughts with all of us he left behind- It should be quite a gig which, of course, is exactly how he would want it!
See you there.
Donna Goulet
Ron, Greg, Pat, and Mike,
I am sorry for your loss. Rich was a wonderful man and I always enjoyed the stories of his life. He was one of my favorite cousins and he will be missed greatly. I know he is with his mom now and that makes me feel better. We are all still in shock so I don't know what else to say. We will see you at the services and our prayers are with you. What a wonderful picture of him. It says it all!! Such a free spirit!!!
Your cousin, Louise
My deepest condolences to the James Family during this time, but I know Rich would not want us to grieve for him, but remember him for who he is.
Rich walked into our school and announced he was moving to Costa Rica and so decided he should maybe learn some Spanish. He was such a delight (typical) that the other students would walk out of their classes for a break just howling at what he and his buddy Bill Jay had instructed my teacher to teach them, such as: "Would you like to hug an old man?"... His tutor, almost shy, could barely tell me what she was teaching them without laughing outloud.
I knew Rich for many, many years in OB, and who didn't? Every year at the OB Street Fair, he'd let us "help" him by painting a square in his murals. He painted his car. He painted beautiful pictures. And every year I knew him, he painted a more beautiful picture of himself: always smiling, always with something wonderful to say.
I will miss him as I know you will, too.
B. Rose Anderson
Poem of Light & Love
For Cousin Rich
laughing in the
long beard of eternity
Rich is light
rolling with the
dolphins in the sea
singing love is
all you need
that,
2 dogs
a convertible & a
pad on the beach called
I like it like that
cousin Rich grins wide
like an open gate
hangs ten with a paintbrush
smoking the immaculate
laughing & running barefoot
in the wedding of this life & the next all things holy
too blessed to be stressed
*******
I love you cuz,
Steve
Dear RJ
I always remember our friendship and the many good times we had. The party we went to at San Vincinte the next day you were in the foursome behind me and we waved you up on a par 3 and you hit a great tee shot within birdie range and before I left the green I lined a circle around the cup with sunflower seeds and it cost you that birdie. I remember the way I used to tease you that you should have at least one good looking guy on the James Gang Logo then you surprised me in 1988 on my 57th birthday by having James Gang t-shirts made up with my picture in the middle of the logo. (the old rattlesnake) You gave them to all the guys at the pac shores to wear upon my arrival. Also I remember the con-artist that you and I met that past himself off as Bobbly Hebert's father and himself a former Green Bay Packer. Rich you were a credit to the community of OB and you will be missed by all of us.
Love Billy Do-Dah
To my wonderful friends Pat and Susan . . . although I only knew Rich through your eyes, I had the privilege of passing his place on my morning run and yes, you could feel his good energy!
I believe he is now Pure Positive Energy and from what I read he has lived close to that energy here on earth.
Rich, I love to hear the stories about you and look forward to celebrating your life at your memorial with your family and friends.
Laura Brownwood
You will be missed by many Rich and that is a tribute to you and your smile and style, may you come back as a dog and get to play at dog beach in OB. I will think of you always at the lighting of the OB tree, and at the parade, but mostly on Thanksgiving I will remember the "tour".
Chris
My first memory of Rich was when I saved him from drowning in the toilet in our quanset hut home in Camp Pendelton. He was two, I was three. At least I think I remember that.
Ron
To the brothers, Pat, Mike, Greg, and Ron, and your families, the Grosch family’s deepest condolences. We have had an original Rich James painting hanging in a prominent place in our home for years. It’s of three hispanic boys playing in the surf wearing shorts and undershirts. The painting depicted the joy and fun of a day at the beach. To me, Rich really caught the essence of Ocean Beach in that painting. And reflects why we love it so much here. I remember when I bought it at his studio in Scrimshaw Square behind our house, he said, “some day I’ll be famous and that’ll be worth real money”. You were wrong this time Rich, I will always treasure it because of the person who painted it. It will be a constant reminder of a man that was a friend, an artist, a rogue, an innovator, a businessman, and a truly kind and gentle human being. Hey, old man, you’ll be missed by an entire community.
Rich Grosch
On behalf of our family, please accept our condolescences on the loss of Rich. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May the Lord's peace bring you comfort.
Sincerely,
Bud and Deb Martin
Rich and Robert are passing a joint back and forth, Bud and Pop are having a beer and Nila and Granny are just shaking their heads.
Cousin Rich James
I just wanted to express my heartfelt sympathy to Ron,Greg,Mike & Pat on the death of your brother. I know it was a terrible shock that happened so suddenly. Perhaps it is a small comfort to you guys that he did not have to experience the lingering suffering that erodes one's dignity in the context of a very seroius illness. I know that each of you had your own special personal spiritual experience with Rich. This is special because his goodness is inside you now. It's personal because its yours to keep. No one can take it away. It is a spirtual experience. His unique and special way about Rich has created a spirtual life of its own that is carved in your hearts & minds. That is his gift to you. You must celebrate this gift with others, and by sharing his spiritual journey, you will help heal yourself and many people He will continue to live. That is his gift to is brothers.
Love you always Rich
Janis
Rich had, and enthusiastically shared, that rare indefinable something that makes O.B. such a unique and life-affirming place. And that thing is called Soul.
So though I didn't know him well, I'll miss him.
Dirty Dave Gomez
President
Ocean Beach Geriatric Surf Club
My sister Samantha, and we would like to express our sympathy to your entire family. John & I just ran into Rich a couple weeks ago at the farmers market and he seemed pretty happy, talkin about Costa Rica. We will always respect what you brothers have done for the Ocean Beach community and will continue to think of you all, every parade.
Love, Marian & John Yamauchi, & Samantha.
I will truly miss my friend Rich {one artist to another} I moved to Ocean Beach in 1974 with my daughter Tricia and we hitchhiked here from Maine when she was 5 and I knew no one here in San Diego. I remember having this sense of welcoming and warmth in the community of Ocean Beach and I have to tell you that the James Gang boys were a big part of filling that void that I felt alone in a new land with no family or friends. I think one of the first times I met Rich outside of there business ,on Newport at the time, was in the big house on Longbranch. It was directly behind my house on Muir that i rented for 27 years. There was no alley between these two streets so we could see each other over the fence. My memories of Rich are ones of warmth and artistry and we also shared another common bond of recovery. I was so happy when he made that choise in his life, as i did, to free ourselves from the evils of addiction. It is a bond like no other. I was also always involved with the street fair and holiday festivities that this family was!
so much a part of. I always had a booth in Artist Alley at the street fair and the only time the whole weekend that I would leave my booth would be to run up to Bacon Street so I could paint my square.I want to thank you Rich for keeping that project going for so many years. B22, my square. I moved away from O.B. and had to live in another part of San Diego in these past years and recently this past January I was invited to show some of my paintings at the Electric Chair on Newport. It was a very rainy night and hardly anyone came to the opening but i did have a few friends show up and one of them was Rich. There he was with a big smile and a warm hug wishing me the best and admiring my and my husbands art work. I am so glad that I got to see you that day Rich and I want you to know that I will continue to pursue my art with you looking down upon me. "Do not stand at my grave and weep, I am not there I do not sleep" Goodbye my friend!
My love to all of Rich's family and friends and I am looking forward to getting together in celebration of this special life.
Love Beverly and her family.
this is probably THE hardest thing i have ever gone through. even after being in the hospital room that night, i still cant believe he's gone.. My god.. Ive never lost anyone who has made such an impact on my life. Ive never had to deal with this before...
Lizzie walked me home the night i got home from the hospital, and I sat outside on the patio for a little while without saying a word forever it seemed... not being able to pick one of the million things running through my mind to say outloud.. finally, I said, "rich... where are you?" and waited a few more moments with the same blank stare on my face before i said, "what the hell am i even doing.. can you even hear me?" as i was looking up to the clear, cloudless sky.. i saw a shooting star, and a smile came across my face. a smile came across my face, and the wind slowly started to pick up around that palm tree the shooting star shot above. the leaves around the bench i was laying on started to fly all over the place.
since that moment, i have felt an amazing sense of comfort and ease.. i'm still a little confused.. but doing better.
i'm going to miss hearing "LET THE SUN SHINEEEE INNNNN" "AND FACE IT WITH A GRIIIINNN" in the most awful singing voice ive heard. haha.. thinking about it brings a smile to my face.. catching him make tea naked in the morning is definitely one thing i'm not going to miss!! but the started look on his face, i will.
to all the family that was there that night... it was very nice meeting all of you. i wish we had met at an earlier time at another place.. but i will see you soon!
I can see him now.. with his new shoes on, ipod touch (that took me FOREVER to teach him about) and that tye dye shirt.. dancing for all the ladies up there..
Andrea turner
The Castners' hearts are heavy. Pescadero will definitely never be the same without you, Rich. You are a positive glow, here for balance. I didn't get to say goodbye to you, even before you left for Costa Rica, but now I know there is a reason for that. I wasn't supposed to say goodbye, because you're still here. Everywhere. Every golden ray of sunset will carry your sweet, happy energy to our doorsteps. Every dolphin surfacing on the horizon is a symbol of how you lived here on earth - free, happy, and submerged in the ocean life. Your vibe is what makes Ocean Beach our home. I admire your peace and tranquility; the strength to retrieve yourself out of a dangerous lifestyle which many here still cannot shake.
Your imprint is all over our community - a legend in a magical town. We've lost an icon - let us not lose his lessons, his spirit. Let us celebrate the life around us: revel in the joy of dogs at play, of children laughing, of musicians practicing, writing and creating (and the memory of Rich gettin' down to the music!). With smiles on our faces, we should live as Rich did, and create our own existence. Peace and love to all of the family, including the fellow Pesky Pelicans. Rich will be sorely missed.
To Pat, Mike, Greg, and Ron, and your families, Our hearts go out to your family.
Rich was one of a kind and I always enjoyed our talks when we ran into to each other at Dog Beach. We would share our love of the arts, mine being photography and Rich with his painting/photography.
We all have the fondest of memories of Rich , being Rich, in OB.
We will never forget the Get Down Hodowns, times spent at th"Shine", the Xmas tree.
The Kazoo Marching Band marching down Newport entertaining merchants and OBceans with Christmas carols.
In honor of Rich let's bring as many of the original band members as possible back for this years parade!
OB loves ya Rich!
OB will miss ya!
George & Jaclie Barnes
Rich was married to my mother Linda. He was a very positive and important influence in my life. Rich always brought my spirits up and helped guide me on the right path. I admired how he always knew what he wanted and strived everyday to live the lifestyle that he enjoyed. His art is fantastic and his personality was ten times better. He was one of the few people that could instantly put my mother in a good mood and I never heard her laugh as much as when she was married to rich. He was my father in law at one time and I will always remember rich as a father figure in my life. I feel blessed to have built a relationship with him and he will be in my thoughts forever.
Rich painted a beautiful picture of Linda that captured the vibrant happy side of her, which I thought was a masterpiece in its own. He was a great man! We will miss you rich!
With Our Love and Blessings to the James Gang and extended family and friends.
I will never get over the loss of my cousin Rich. We had so many plans for the future in Costa Rica and beyond. Although I know Rich is tripping on death as much as he ever did on life and insisting we pay it no mind, I am crushed. It is with the greatest sense of gratitude that I reflect upon my memories of the beautiful soul we knew as Rich James. After the brutal murder of my father in Berkeley 2002, and following some subsequent legal problems of my own, Rich took me in when I had nowhere else to go. He was instrumental in helping me turn my life around. He fed me, showed me endless good times at Dog Beach and endured my presence on his couch for an entire summer. When I returned home I was a new and better person. We attended his church every Sunday and I kept "a plug in the jug" the whole duration of my stay. Rich is the greatest guy I've ever known and he will be so sorely missed now that he has gone home. I love you dearly and forever Ricardo! PEACE
Cousin Gavin
Rich...where to begin..the memories move forward and backwards through time...walking with you through o.b. looking for rolling papers...the store was closed, but with a knock on the glass and a shrug of your shoulders, the door opens and out came the papers...thanks man! we're off again-buddy, the mayor, and me! remarking once on his long stride, rich told me that he loved to "step out" & that o.b. was the place rich loved, and that loved him back...you reached out to my kid when the world went dark for us...i believed you saved his life, and restored our broken hearts...i could write about you forever, but the tears won't stop...what more can i say, than I LOVE YOU!!!
Cousin Jennifer
The fond memories of Rich go on and on... many times we exceeded all expectations:
The get down hoe down...Big oak ranch...OB tree...Baja orphan run Fireworks t-shirts...Dump the raiders t-shirts...Tuesday nite bowling league UOB marching kazoo band...Sexamus Pharmaceum Rockenrollus Securitree...Street fair...Mini hoe down...St paddy's limo ride The last hoe down...Turkey trot...
"You better take care of me Lord, if you don't you're gonna have me on your hands."
Hunter S. Thompson
Much love to all as we remember Rich -
Ricardo
I ALWAYS ENJOYED SEEING RICHS FACE IN THE MORNING STARRING OFF THE PESCY DECK. HE WAS AND WILL ALWAYS BE LOVED WHOLE HEARTEDLY BY ME. I WILL MISS YOU FRIEND . YOU'VE ALWAYS BEEN AN ANGEL ON MY SHOULDER. THANKS FOR ALL OF THE LOVE YOU SHARED WITH ME RICH. LELDON
The presence of Rich James is ever present on my music studio walls as well as walls across our city. This is a man who constantly created and gave back to us.
Almost every one around knew Rich. One of the things that impressed me about this guy was he always carried a positive view about everything and everyone and I never heard him say anything negative about anyone. He was almost constantly smiling. That actually irritated me at times since I was occasionally in a bad mood about something, but 10 minutes around Rich and I had forgotten was I was upset about and was smiling too. I will surely miss him.
D C DowDell
To My Cousins, Ron, Greg, Mike. Pat & Kelly
My deepest Regrets, and heartfelt sorrow...Although the years have taken us all to our own places, I still feel a Great Loss knowing one of the gang is gone for now. It sounds like Rich, lived a life some could only dream of.
I know the comfort of our Grandma Elsie's, soft loving arms has taken my beautiful Aunt Nila, and now they together can embrace Rich. Prayers, Love and always laughter be with each of you.
Love,Cousin Jami & Family
Pinole,Calif.
Thoughts and Prayers to the family.
Doug Coffland
So many wonderful memories! Rich was an amazing man. What comes to mind is the goin sumoin party, get down hoe downs, Naming cocktails at happy hour.
He will be greatly missed.
My thoughts and prayers go out to the family.
Donna Pedersen
Although I did not get to know Rich very well, he was family, and I know he will be missed greatly. The last time I saw Rich was briefly at my Dad's service, and I know that my dad and him were close, just like Rich's other cousins and relatives, who I know will miss him greatly. To his brothers and family, my heart goes out to you. I like to smile knowing that he is up there with my dad, RJ, and they are probably doing exactly what my Uncle Rich said above, (: I know in my heart that they are up there, where the party never stops, and living the good life. Love you Rich.
Michael James (RJ's youngest)
I sit here writing this in total disbelief. There is no way that Rich is gone. I can't believe going into OB knowing that he is not there. Everytime I saw Rich when I was in high school, he always commented about my beard. He always mentioned about how he didn't start growing facial hair until he was in college. Then when I joined the Navy, he asked me about my job every single time I saw him. I will always say the Rich James was the epitome of what the OBcian is. I would see his car on the freeway. That awesome dolphin mobile. Rich will always be missed in the hearts of anybody that calls OB home. We love and miss you tons Rich.
Luc
I have this vague early memory of Grandma Nila taking my sister Jennifer and I over to Uncle Rich's house. The two of us were staying there while visiting OB, there were trails of laundry on the floor leading to the other rooms. I remember him explaining which trail went to the bathroom. Grandma shook her head and laughed it off, but I know she probably just wanted to clean up. So he wasn't that clean, but what he lacked in house cleaning skills he made up for in spirit. He loved life more then anyone I know and took every opportunity to live it to the fullest. I am so thankful that in the past year he had become closer to my siblings and I and took care of the people I hold dear to me. Last time I saw Uncle Rich he was making me listen to his friends CD and dancing around the back room of Grandpa Bill's house, he made every bad situation a little bit lighter. He will be missed but everyday when I have a cup of yerba mate I will think of him and the impact he had on all around him.
Renée Jay
How can I ever forget the great times we had with Rich. "Get Down Hoe Downs", Trip to Catalina, Just plain old fun in O.B. He was th one to Hang with. Our friendship will never be forgotten. Knowing Rich and his brothers for 30 years has been one helluva great time. Rich will be missed dearly not only by me but by many that knew him. We love ya Rich.
Laurie and Joe Iacino
I can not believe you are gone, I will always remember how much you were truly a kid at heart. Always a smile, a kind word you were kind heart person. I will truly miss you! I wish I got to see you more, but distance prevented that. But no matter the miles between us, when you saw me it was like it was only days..not years. While in heaven say hello to my Dad and Mom (Uncle Dan and Aunt Violet) along with Grandma Elise and your Mom Aunt Nila. You will always be in my heart and the memory of you will always be in my heart.
God Bless you!
Cuz Theresa Paiz-Phipps
Dear Pat and Susan ,
We would like to send our thoughts and prayers to you and your family , we are so sorry for your sudden loss .
From
Tim & Donna Lamb & Girls
Rich was there hanging out when I put my yurt up for the first time in Nevada county. He was just chillin crackin jokes and keepin it light like he did so well. He loved taking buddy to the river, and I will miss getting to have more summer visits, or cruising around O.B. in his dolphin-mobile, with our infamous cousin Rich James. We all love you. Patrick James Kavanaugh
I am truly sad for your family's (and all of us Obceans') loss. I met Rich once on Bermuda beach at sunset a few years back. We only chatted for a few minutes but even in that short time you could sense he really embodied that OB spirit that we hope to keep alive in our funky little town. He will be missed.
Mel
Until there is a time when O.B. is no longer a spot in our vast universe, Rich James will always be with us. Just take a minute and look around our little paradise. He is everywhere, and his spirit is eternal. Our thoughts and prayers are now with your family. You have always been here for us, and now it is our turn to return the love. Please let us know how we can be of assistance.
Mrs. Wendy A. Faulkner
COUSIN RICH,,,,IT HAS BEEN SO MANY YEARS AND EVEN THOUGH WE WERE SEPERATED BY 20 YRS IN AGE, WHEN I SAW YOUR PICTURE HERE IN THE FRONT, YOU IN YOUR CAR WITH THE DOGS, I THOUGHT,, I KNOW THAT GUY. THAT FAMILIAR FACE..I THINK THE LAST TIME I WAS DOWN IN OCEAN BEACH WAS WITH GRANDMA ELSIE AND MY MOM AUNT DONNA, I WAS A JUNOIR IN HIGH SCHOOL I THINK AROUND 1983... WOW WHERE DOES THE TIME GO..LIFE TAKES US FAR FROM OUR ROOTS AND BUSINESS KEEPS US BUSY, BUT I HAVE MEMORIES OF MY YOUNGER YEARS IN REDDING, A FEW IN O.B.,AND WE ARE FAMILY, ALL CONNECTED SOMEHOW AND AT ONE TIME...YOUR ALREADY MISSED..I WISH THAT WE HAD TWO LIFE TIMES TO LIVE,,,ONE TO GET US STARTED AND ESTABLISHED HERE ON THIS EARTH, AND THE OTHER TO GO BACK AND REMEMBER AND RETRACE OUR FOOTSTEPS..TO RE VISIT EACH AND EVERYONE OF OUR FAMILY MEMBERS AND FRIENDS THAT WE HAVE NOT SEEN IN YEARS..61 YEARS JUST IS NOT ENOUGH TIME...100 YEARS ISNT ENOUGH TIME..I HOPE AND PRAY THAT WHEN WE LEAVE THIS EARTH WE GET THE CHANCE !
TO DO JUST THAT.... TO ALL OF MY COUSINS AND TO UNCLE BILL , I LOVE YOU..,AND IM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS.. I HOPE TO SEE YOU ALL AGAIN SOON.. PETE LOUSTALOT
Aloha, Rich...
I remember working for you many moons ago at the James Gang...it was a transitional period of my life. I'd gone from mortgage banking to working in a creative/casual environment which I truly enjoyed. I recall times when you would say, "I'm going to my office" which meant that you would be next door at the Arizona Cafe (usually mid morning). When calls came in for you, I would walk next door with the cordless phone so that you could continue business from there. You cracked me up!
Rich, I will always remember you as a colorful soul. Go easy on God.
Marcia
From the day that the first O.B. tree was put in place to the Chili Cook Offs to the Fourth of July fireworks display off the pier, to the annual Christmas Parade, Rich James has been one of the most influential persons in all of O.B's history! What a wonderful motivator of people! What a good drinking buddy! What excellent taste in automobiles! Rich had it all! The last conversation that I had with Rich, two or three years ago (my Alzheimer's keeps me from remembering the exact date), we discussed his customizing my 73' Olds Royale (convertible) with one of his signature paint jobs! Unfortunately, we never got around to it! Rich, you made O.B. the charming and community oriented place that it is today! Thank you for all that you did for us! God Bless!
"No sea too rough, no muff too tough!"
O.B Longhorns
Rich James and his brothers are directly responsible for putting a huge whammy curse on OB! First, during a night of drunken revelry, he comes up with the hare brained idea of planting a huge Christmas Tree on the beach at the foot of Newport Avenue! If that wasn't enough to raise a few "Bah, Humbugs", he decides that OB should have a Christmas Parade to go with it! Then he had the audacity to cram patriotism down our throats by coming up with a Chili Cook Off in order to raise money for a fireworks display off the pier on the Fourth of July! What was he thinking? Did he think that he could bring smiles to the faces of thousands of children? Did he think that thousands of people would pay their hard earned cash for a few bites of some dudes experimental nitro grade chili? Didn't he realize that he would never be able to get the California Fish & Game Department to approve blasting hundreds of pyrotechnic cannisters off the pier for fear that it would disturb the wil!
dlife living in the vicinity? Shoot, I can't even find a person that has anything scandalous to say about him! Rich, we will all miss you for all that you've done for us! I hope that the thousands of people who's lives you touched will dedicate an everlasting memorial to your great works! Peace!
Bobby 'Champ' Payne
A few days before Rich passed my mom took me back to the place I call home...Rich's place. While she ran out to the store to buy him some chicken soup and ben gay...I was lucky...I got to lie next to him on our couch. Buddi wasn't around so with Rich's gentle touch he assured me that soon he, Buddi, and I would soon resume our daily walks at Dog Beach. After all, he was one of the main reasons that I was finally home again! (He kept telling my mom that life was too short to be working as hard as she was and that until we moved back to OB life just wouldn't be the same for any of us!) I could sense he was not himself that evening so after showering him with kisses, I snuggled up next to him, his hand on my back. Together we rested each giving the other comfort. My mom came back and there I sat praying that Rich would share, as he always did, a bit of his dinner with me. We then had to leave to get up the hill but Rich promised I would see him again. Sunday night all alone at my new place, he returned. Shortly after 10:30 he came and once again promised me runs on Dog Beach, at least one more ride in our car where I always sat behind him with my ears blowing in the breeze, and unconditional love, even when I stood out the window and barked at anyone that didn't belong on the alley or when I took up all the room on his bed. He scritched my neck one more time, allowed me to shower him with licker kisses, and then told me to shower my mom with love when she returned home later that night. My job he said was to turn her tears to smiles as I was to tell her about Rich coming to our house, about his love for me, for Buddi, for Cheyenne and all his other "bitches" and he wanted me to tell her he was okay. That he would continue to walk the sands of Dog Beach with us all, that he would forever watch over his Buddi, and me. I tried to tell her best I could...The last time I went to our house Pat and Susan were there...friends of Rich's were there. Thankfully they understood I needed my place on the couch, with my blanket that Rich always had out for me...and there I sat upright...a better dog because of the man that guided me with his gentle touch, his loving ways, and his love for life.
Gidget
Our thoughts and prayers go out to Rich and his family. Rich was "one of a kind".
Dee & Ed Dees
We will miss seeing Rich driving around O.B. in his old "BEAT UP CAR". When you think of O.B. "back in the day", one has to always think of Rich. What will Thanksgiving be wihout the "TURKEY PATROL". Miss ya buddy!
Liz and Jimmy Michalina
An OB legend has passed in to the eternity. Evidenced here, is a memorial of the Rich rewards that will remain with all of us who knew you. I can't imagine what OB would be like, without your Spirit, and it is your Love and Spirit, that will continue to guide everyone that came in contact with you.
I look forward to seeing you, again, and how you've organized a Heaven Christmas Parade.
Thanks
Gordon Browne
what good conversations we had at the end of Pescadero.you told me to look for the west when the early souths would come through.We talked about Cosa Rica.I love all your murals around OB.I had no idea how important you are to local history!you were so laid back.I think we should have a paddle out to celebrate Rich's life.
Jason Scott
Rich's passing is a great loss to his friends and the community. Our prayers are with him and our deepest
sympathy goes out to his family. God bless.
JOE AND EILEEN
Ok here it goes, it’s taken me a couple day to find the strength to share my memories of my Uncle Rich every time it tried tears would start to follow, for he’s been such a support after the passing for my grandma, and we spent a lot of time together this year. My kids and I recently spent the week with him in March at my grandpa’s, he loved spending time with my kids, but he had a special place in his heart for my youngest daughter Becky, as she did for him. I think that’s because Becky’s a lot like him, a free spirit who loves people, nature, animals, and beautiful things. When he would visit us, Uncle Rich and her were inseparable, they would go everywhere together. When we talked he always asked how we all were, and how his little Becky was doing. After are week long visit I was driving home listening to a cd that one of his friend’s had made and thinking of Uncle Rich sing and dancing to his favorite track on the cd as we pull out of the driveway, I thought !
of what a great week I had with my uncle and my family, we talked, laughed, loved, shared, remembered, celebrated, walked along the Sacramento river, went gambling in the remembrance of grandma (which was one of her favorite things to do), it was the best week I have ever spent with him and I’m so blessed to have had that time with him. Our memories and your love will last forever in our hearts, you’ll be sorely miss but never forgotten. Tell grandma how much we miss her, and that we all are doing ok (you know how she worries). Love You Always Uncle Rich,
Your Niece Jenny, Your Great Nieces Marrisa and Becky, and Your Great Nephew James.
Oh Dear Cousin, I'm ever greatful for my spur of the moment road trip to Uncle Bills and you were there, I was not in the best frame of mind and needed to talk. There you were open armed saying Hi Cuz like you were expecting me, not knowing that would be the last time we talked, you touched my soul that day with your words of wisdom and encouragement, Get rid of that Monkey Brain you said, lol. damn it .It was if I was suppose to make that trip.You have helped so many people with your gentle soul and kind words and wonderful aura, I will forever cherish that day and will miss the Hell out of you, I'm glad we had that time together, Kiss the bunch for me, I love you, and will be honored to attend the celebration of such a wonderful man and cousin. Blessings to all the James Gang as well.
Love Cousin Janine
I met RichArts about 1 year ago when had me work on the car he had gotten from his father Donald .I was having a very hard time with life as i went through a terrible seperation lost custody of my daughter and lost my job and started my own mobile repair buisness. RichArts emailed me through an add on cl and we met.RichArts had a good philosophy on life and he helped me with my monkey mind as he would have called it.RichArts showed me how to handle things i did not know how to handle at that time.I knew RichArts and I met for a reason more than just working on his car at that time.RichArts had givin me hope and some peace for the first time in along time.Lifes so very strange we met for a reason and i learned quite a few things from the man and felt he was like my brother. We had planned to do some searching for gold this may as he was coming up to see his father donald james.RichArts as i liked to call him was a very caring good man and loved life and his family including!
buddy his dog.I feel like he saved my life and im going to miss you RichArts so very much.At least i had the good fortune to meet the man i call RichArts its just to bad others wont have that chance now.God Gives and God takes away RichArts you will be missed each and every single day.Your friend from redding california RichArts and may your god be with you brother and the James Family peace out.Sincerely your friend Carl Storms redding california.
Sincerest condolences to the entire James family. Rich may have passed but to us he will always be there in OB in spirit.
Mike Charter
Dear James family, I remember meeting Rich at your parents house during Christmas time .I'm sure Russell has good memories of him. I didn't get to know who he was but I know he will be dearly missed.It's always hard to find words of comfort at times like this .Words seem so in shallow. I am praying for you all that you will find comfort in this time by pressing into Jesus .My heart aches with you .I am thankful that you have beautiful memories of him while God allowed him to be with you .Hang on to those .We never know when our time here will be gone .We are only a vapor. I'm sending you many hugs & prayers . here's a song : In a moment like this life goes on ,In a moment like this life is gone ,In amoment like this I choose you ,In a moment like this I love you .We all think that we'll live forever, and dyings for somebody else .All we really have is this moment ,this moment this precious moment .Tell those around you that you love them while you have the opportunity .!
Take care, In God's love ,Cindy Dufer
Random thoughts on a sad day.
The yearly crawfish gathering of the OBecians.
The ever ready smile of encouragement.
"Don't let them get to you."
The coolest James of the James Gang. and they are all cool.
The monolith sign on the side of the building with the brothers embossed like a California Mount Rushmore.
I'm sorry that you are gone but I sure am glad you were here. I'll miss you.
Frank Boring
Rich was one of the great loves of my life. Working together, playing together, living together. Trips to Redding, camping in San Felipe, dart tournaments, Rosarito Beach, James Gang Get Down Hoe Downs, bowling league, OB 4th of July celebrations, Over the Line games, Saturday Night Live. Bill, Ron, Greg, Donna, Mike, Pat, Susan and Kelly…my heart breaks for your loss. I can still hear his ever present laughter and it makes me smile. And Rich when you see MacGregor, give him a pet and toss the frisbee. Mike, thanks or letting me know.
With love from Minnesota, Pam.
I didn't know Rich, but I have met Pat James and if his spirit is anything like Pats then I know he is already missed. When I met Pat he renewed the spirit and love of OB in me and I thank him for that. My prayers go out to all Rich's family and friends.
old souls are always felt
John Koca
I first met Rich in Ocean Beach in the 70's. We shared a passion for graphics arts and many a laugh - - - as life was just too good to take seriously in those days. It seems as though it was just yesterday. Now it will be forever.
Jan and I just want to extend our love to all the James' brothers, for we have all lost a "great one".
Bruce and Jan
Dear James Family,
What a beautiful and memory filled tribute in Sunday's paper honoring Rich. I have memorable memories of growning up at the James Gang as a young woman. Those days taught me, raised me and set me free for the next adventures in my life. Rich was a great, generous and giving person. It's hard to be anywhere in OB and not see him reflected back in so many memories and great deeds. He was loved, admired, appreciated and will never be forgotten. Thank you Rich and the James Gang family for being apart of my life.
Michelle
As I sat in my easy chair this past Sunday morning, with my newspaper and coffee, a colorful picture caught my eye on back page of of one of the sections, a smiling man in a convertible and his three companions. Before reading anything, just looking at the picture, I felt this man, who ever he was, looks like he had found in life what we all keep searching for..."joy of life itself"...plain and simple. He had found that special secret. I took a sip of coffee as I started to read the article, I slowly put the coffee down as I realized, this man is Richard, of "Ronnie and Richard", my "little brothers" in another lifetime. I closed my eyes with tears and went back in time when our families were like one. We were three children, ages 5 & 6 years old, living in East Sand Diego, our parents, Bill, Nila, John and Gloria were like a family to each other. If the James family wasn't at our home, we were at theirs. If you found one of us kids, you'd find the other two.
I fondly remember Richard was always a happy-go-lucky and mischievous kid, always making me laugh. Even at a young age, he had that special joyfulness I saw in the newspaper picture. We had such a special bond then, one I have always carried with me and never forgot.
Dearest Ronnie and James family...there is no other place I'd rather be on May 18th than celebrating Richard's gifted life with his devoted family and friends. I will be among the hundreds touched by his life.
Love and treasured memories,
Kittye Jo (MacGillivray) Wallies
This has been a difficult time for family and loved ones of my brother Rich. I have been over at his house every day since his passing and although this has been hard, I find comfort in his spiritual messages posted all over the house. I also find comfort with the outpouring of support from Ocean Beach and Beyond. It’s obvious he was well loved and affected many peoples’ lives. I know he affected mine.
Last year at this time, we were dealing with the illness of our beloved mother. He not only helped me, but the rest of our family with his spiritual beliefs. I find it a bit ironic he passed 10 months to the day we lost our mother. I take this as a sign they are now together again with all our loved ones who have gone before. As for his friends who were at the hospital the night he passed - Susan, Johnny, Trish, Linda, and the Pesky crew - you are amazing people! The love felt that night was incredible. Not all tears shed that night were tears of sadness, some were tears of joy that we had had a chance to know Rich. Many more memories to come later.
Thank you all & God bless.
Pat
Rich, you won't be forgotten. I walk to Sunset Cliffs often and you know I go by your place. I'll think of you every time. You are just a nice guy. Friendly, and always up for a good chat. I'll miss that.
Debe A.
Rich.
I cannot believe it.
Full of life and a deep love for all that was real.
Got the call today from Mike Calahan, I could not make out what he was saying, as usual, all I picked up was, go to this web site and something about you man.
I am sitting here and I cannot believe my eyes.
Bobby G, Mike, you and me,, we hung a lot together, drank coffee, did a coupla gigs you arranged, sang at your wedding and now this.
Your art. you were Bohemian 100%. you were the one who laughted, always.
I go now and am in complete shock.
I loved WHO you were man, you were so far ahead of the posse.
God bless you my friend.
Matt Manning.
I meant of course Bobby T (RIP) , you're painting buddy.
We lost Bobby a while ago and are still getting over that.
condolences to all The Family. Oh Man. no words, no words.
God bless you again Rich, like he did before.
Matt Manning
RICH I WISH I'D KNOWN YA
Every day I wake up in my new home town
I walk and hear stories and sound
As I passed the James Gang store in OB
A poster in the window I see
A smiling guy in a cool open car
With three dogs looking happy they are
Soon I learned from his many friends who remember How Rich gave them much more than a parade in December
A kazoo band and a Christmas tree sixty foot tall Plus his laughter and friendship given freely to all
As your spiritual journey continues on to somewhere All those you left know somewheres better, because you are there
Dave Sparling
Ocean Beach and the world lost a great and free spirit with the untimely passing of Rich James. I saw him often as he would turn the Dolphinmobile from Peacadero onto Orchard(where I live) and it would always make me smile. My thoughts go out to Pat and Sue and the rest of the James family. Rich truly embodied the OB Spirit and will be missed, but legacy he left will always live on.
A kind soul indeed...met him some years ago when he brought his really cool El Nino pics ( big wave by the Pier) into my store for copying, it was evident by his energy, spirit, and kindness that he was a really great person...as stated above many times, all of the James Gang are really cool, solid people. Rich's spirit and energy so very obviously will never leave O.B. and all of the people he touched.
Life is beautiful all because of you brother Rich. The memories I hold dear so close to my heart of you, our time together has blessed my life. I love you and God bless...Michael and Kevin Griffin
I am so sorry for your loss of such a inspiring son and brother. I although I haven't seen Rich in probably 20 years, the picture of him shows a smile I have never forgotten. God bless you at this difficult time. Below is a poem that has my sentiments.
Julie (Goeb) Davis
The Ship That Sailed Away...
I am standing upon the shore.
A ship at my side
spreads her white sails to the morning breeze and starts for the blue ocean.
She is an object of beauty and strength, and I stand and watch her until she hangs like a speck of white cloud out where the sea and sky meet and mingle with each other.
Then someone at my side says,
"There. She is gone."
Gone where?
Gone from my sight,
that is all.
Her diminished size is in me, not in her.
She is just as true in mast and hull and spar as she was when she left my side, and just as able to bear her load of living freight to her destination.
And at that same moment
when someone at my side says,
"There. She is gone." --
other eyes are watching her coming,
and other voices take up the glad shout, "Here she comes!"
And this is dying.
--Author Unknown
First things first...Rich as the original OB Santa I promise you that we will fix up that "art" car of yours in heaven! Boy, what a shock!...You and I talked many a time of how recovery saved your life and how we both had lived full lives and never got cheated squeezing fun out of every minute....be it cutting the OB tree in the freezing rain well insulated by liquids or waking up to Peter Dunn bloody mary's at the HoDown's. But it is your fortitude I will remember..knowing that you needed to make a life style change in the toughest place on earth to do it....OB. You added years to your life and to our friendship....Thank you for that! Save me a place wherever it is that you have landed, I'll be there but not soon I hope!
John Schultz
My deepest condolences to the James clan. Ocean Beach would not be the great "O.B." if not for the "James Gang". My community spirit for O.B. and local involvement in other places had always been inspired by Rich and the brothers. We met a few times and I feel very lucky for these encounters. San Diego and Ocean Beach, in particular, has lost a great citizen and an enthusiastic contributer to quality of life in southern California. As a fellow artist, I applaud all Rich's contributions to the children of Ocean Beach and his diligence in keeping the creation of art as an honest and rewarding human endeavor for every person.
With love and admiration, Ken Keegan
To the James family our condolences are with you at this sad time. Rich was the un-official Mayor of OB. He was everywhere. The nicest guy with a passion for art & his dogs. Always smiling. Never down. I'm sure many wish they could be as happy as Rich and live as full a life as he did. We'll miss seeing him driving his Malibu !! OB will miss you.
Paul & Lynne Bolton
Linda Lawrence (Rich's ex-"wife")
Yes, we did marry, as we had a wonderfully hopeful romance. Rich was unafraid to move forward with any idea. This one we shared, to make a marriage and home of two willing people in love.
We lived together from August 1997-November 1999; and were married August 1, 1998-June 2000.
Rich was inspiring, loving, fun, supportive, and he made the best veggie stir-fry's and smoothies ever.
Rich left a positive impact on my son Joel, as he did on many others, inspiring him to be responsible and to follow his dreams.
Only Rich was able to cheer-up my mom, while she was in hospice in St. Louis. He flew out on Christmas Day to be with my family and me. He walked into her room with a Cat-in-the-Hat hat on. My mom looked up and was introduced to "Linda's husband Rich". Her eyes lit-up and laughed even though she could make no sounds.
Rich, I love you and am sorry that our life-styles were only a good match for such a short time. Thank you for all the love you give and all of your wonderful art. You would have had such a great time being close to nature, near the warm waters of Costa Rica, and the financial freedom to create so much more of your amazing art. You had a taste of it, as only you can savor it.
Rich, I know you are enthused about this new adventure you are on....how is it?
Love, Linda
God Bless.....a kindred spirit and inspiration...
Kim Howell
Rich, our hearts go out to your family and closest friends as they grieve your passing, but we also know how much they loved you and appreciated having you in their lives. We certainly enjoyed having you as a friend for so many years (about 35 now) and were thankful for that and all of your help, most recently when we were provisioning for our ocean passage while in San Diego. We bet very few cruisers were able to haul their supplies in such a stylin' vehicle! We also know what an important role you played in Greg's life and how much like a son he was to you. His time with you over the years provided him many fond childhood memories and we know how proud of him you were. Greg and Lori will be there this weekend when your life is celebrated, and we wish we could be also, but New Zealand is where we currently are and is so far away from San Diego. Please know our thoughts will be with all of your loved ones and we will no doubt be missing many great stories about you!
With love, Melanie & David
To the James Family,
Please accept my deepest condolences. Rich and the entire James Gang play a big part in memories of the years I lived in Ocean Beach. Although it was many years ago, I cherish those memories and have always kept informed via the OB Website/Newsletter. I remember many good times and great get togethers with Rich and famiily.
You may not remember me as it was many years ago Vinnie and I shared a friendship with the James Gang. I worked at the T-Shirt Boutique in the late 70's early 80's and Vinnie at the Sunshine Company. We had a little boy named Jaime who was born during that time. I still have photos of us all sharing a Christmas eve party at our home on Cape May ave.
I greatly admired the closeness of the family and wish you to know that Rich was a man not to be forgotten even after so many years. Blessing to all the family.
Deb (Potocki) Provost
From the Williams Family to the entire James Family our deepest condolences. I have known Rich for a long time. Although we were not close friends he always had time to say hi and chat from time to time when we bumped into each other at dog beach and around town. He was an OB icon everyone knew him and were better for it. He will be deeply missed but never forgotten for all the work he and his brothers have done for this town. It is everywhere you look. I want to say thanks again Rich for helping me out on a desperate day. I was trying to come up with a last minute gift for my brother Wade and his wife to be Debbie for their Wedding reception. I wanted a painting for their new home. I talked with Janis and she said she didnt have any OB pier Paintings but Rich might. I searched all over town for Rich and couldnt find him. I knew if I just hung out sooner or later I could spot him and I was right. After a couple hours I got a glimpse of that old convertible making a !
turn down Cable and knew he was in town. When I caught up to him he dropped what he was doing and took me to his studio to start digging around for a painting. He came up with a awesome pier painting which I put in a gorgeous frame and it sits over Wade and Debbies fireplace in OB to this day. We have that special gift from Rich that we can always look at and enjoy. He gave me a great price on it since it was for my brother and saw how relieved I was that he had the painting. He then laughed at me and said why did you wait so long to come and see me. He knew he had saved my ass. And what a great treasure we have from Rich to honor his memory, so thanks again buddy. You are loved and missed by all of OB!!
Kirk
Rich, bummer to hear you're gone. It's been MANY years since I saw you. Working at the James Gang in college was a huge part of what shaped my career as a graphic designer... and got me my first "career" job... I actually got hired because of my experience with silk screen. THANKS for having such a cool place to work! Thanks for being an understanding boss and an all around cool guy... looks like things went well for you and I'm not surprised you were an O.B. icon.
Lots of love to "the brothers"... I hope to bump into more of you on my next San Diego visit, nice to see you last time Pat!
Scott - (from waaaaaay up in Humboldt)
I wait for you in paradise..blessings on all your loved ones
shanna baldwin
Uncle Bill, Ron, Greg, Pat, Mike & Kelly,
I've been sitting here reading the wonderful tributes to Rich & been so blessed. I remember all our "James Gang Family Reunions" & what a blast Rich always was. He truly was the "life of the party"! After reading these special memories people have of Rich in OB, I know that his spirit will live on in the hearts of all those who were lucky enough to have known him. There were so many things I learned about him from all of these remembrances. I loved being able to see his art, murals, & photos. What a wonderful treasure he is. I pray the Lord's grace & peace will be with you all.
Cousin Pat Pierce
To the James Gang from the Kapchinske Family, With deepest sympathy we send our thoughts your way. May your hearts be lightened by the incredible out pouring of love set forth in this website. It says not only a great deal about Rich, but about each of you as well. Take care of yourselves. Give a special greeting to your father Bill from my parents, Kap and Dottie.
Jan Kapchinske
Rich, wow! What a blessing to know you. Wow, you sure packed a lot of stuff into a few years on this planet . . .
Thank you for the talks, the laughs, James Gang Christmas parties, the art (especially the murals), the photos, Wendy, THE SPIRIT, ooh my god I'm going to laugh. I'm going to miss you - always remember you. Say HI to Bobby, remember Matt. God Bless Us, Everyone. mike (smokey) {gotcha}
James Family,
My thoughts and prayers go out to your family and Rich, I will miss his presents in our great little town, He and your family our wonderful Icons of our little beach town. Great memories and his beautiful art work will live on in our hearts and on the walls of our town. Peace and God Bless.
Karen Kirby
We miss you.
Love,
Mike & Kristen & Jo
Rich is a spirit that will live on beyond these realms...a kind hearted talent who always had time(no matter how busy)to encourage me in my art,find something good in it, even when I didn't...a great pall who was just an OB guy...livin' life and lovin' it,looking toward the future and it's new adventure..may he find many more ..and receive some of the love back, he gave
Gary Springfield
Winter time 1988, the Winter Olympics, and the Jamaican Bobsled team made their first appearance. By the time they had made that historic run down the mountain, you would have thought that Rich had personally coached them to victory (not!) and he was off to catch the first plane to Jamaica to welcome home his guys in traditional Jamaican fashion (no need for explanation).
It was a fun time; the James brothers dancing Pee Wee Herman's version of "Tequila", Christmas Cioppino, those endless family meetings next door to the shop on Newport and $1 drinkies. When someone asked me a day or two after he passed on how old Rich was, I guessed in his early 50's. I revised my answer an hour later and wondered where the years have gone. I have read here today about the later Rich years, but it sure was fun to be around during the early Rich years, when the party never seemed to end. Well it had to end for us all, and thankfully it gave Rich James more time to establish his legend. Vaya con dios amigo.
Narda Stroesser
Dear James Family,
I'm so sorry to hear of your loss of Rich...I had not heard until now...It has been so many years since I have seen him, but I think of some of the fun times we had in those early years of the James Gang on Newport Avenue...We were all so young...I read the tributes from Bev Libbey and George and Jackie Barnes...I remember those days at Muir Avenue and "The Shine" and "beer thirty" with the fondest of memories, and don't forget the business meetings at "Pac Shores"....Rich was kind, intellegent and what a talent...He left a legecy you all can be proud of...The loss of a brother, son and friend is so difficult, but please have faith this is a temporary state and you will be together someday....Take care, Joy Farrelly
I miss ... that slow smile
Lindell
I miss you Rich. I wanted to spend more time with you here in Costa Rica. I´m happy you came by in December so we could have one last visit. You taught me about painting and a loving God. You were always there for me in SD. I always had a friend who could make me happy, see the posotive , and I wish we could have one more meal in your apt by the cliffs. I try to live like you. Con paz y amor, tu amigo Jim